You want to know what movie messes me up? The Vow. You know that one with Rachel McAdams and Channing Tatum? Yeah, that one. But it doesn't necessarily mess me up in just a bad way. It messes me up in a good way, too.
The movie is based off the book with the same title by Nicholas Sparks, and it just really seems to get me every time.
Now, if you haven't seen this movie or read this book but you are still planning to, DO NOT READ AHEAD. I will not be held accountable for spoilers when I clearly warned you.
The main idea of this story is that there is this guy named Leo and this girl named Paige, and they're married. They're all perfectly in love; she's a sculptor and he's a recording artist. Like I mentioned, their love is fairytale perfect, that is, until they get in a car accident that changes everything. From the impact of the accident, Paige is left severely brain damaged. Paige does not remember that she is married to Leo, in fact she doesn't remember that she ever loved him at all. The whole rest of the movie is spent with Leo trying to get Paige to remember him and trying to get her to fall back in love with him.
Now, I'm not going to spoil the ending just in case someone so conveniently decided to skip over my warning message, but i'm sure the gist and the general theme can be deduced. All in all, it's a beautiful story, but it just hits me really hard.
Leo loves Paige so much that it's almost heartbreaking, and be for the accident it's clear to see that Paige loves him just as much. I've been in love before and (still am now), and no matter how many times I puns the words of the book or the scenes in the movie into my head, I still cannot wrap my mind around how difficult it must be to have the person who you you love most in the world forget that you exist, and even worse,t hat they ever loved you. My heart aches for Leo's, and I don't even know. I am so in love right now, head over heels even, and I cannot even imagine how heartbroken and reduced to barely nothing I would be if the person I love ever forgot me.
Why and I talking about this movie and book, do you ask? I am writing this rant from my couch as I bawl my eyes out into a wad of tissues as I watch the movie right now, that's why.
So thank you all for listening to my rant. I know it's somewhat insignificant, but I am one of those people that believes that if a piece of literature or art touches you in a particular way, you should share your opinion about it or your general feelings about it with the world, because what you say just may inspire others.
So, in short; I hope you've been inspired, and I hope my blog makes you all want to inspire others too. Maybe by reading how much the story of The Vow touched me, you will be encouraged to let things in and let them touch you too. But that's just wishful thinking, I guess.
As always, thanks for reading!
~KMS